“Your purpose in life is
to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it.”
― Gautama Buddha
It’s one of
Life’s big questions that we all ask at some point. What are we here for? What
am I supposed to be doing? What do I really want to do?
I’ve always
been the kind of person who has had it all “figured” out.
Throughout my
life I’ve had many goals and ambitions; I’ve wanted to be a singer, a vet, a horse
rider, to working with animals, in music and media management, events… and now
I feel I’ve finally found something that I feel truly passionate about.
After going
through my own personal process of self-discovery and uncovering my real interests,
I decided to put together 7 questions to help to guide you in the direction of
your true desires.
So get out
your pen and journal, and take this time to focus on you, to discover what you
really want and find your purpose:
1.
What
makes you happy? (Simple question, but I encourage you to write down all the
different things that make you feel good e.g. activities, hobbies, events,
people, projects etc.)
2.
What
do you consider yourself to be good at? What are your strengths, skills,
talents?
3.
What
are the things in life that make you completely lose track of time? You know
the kinda thing you sit down to do, get totally lost in and before you know it
4 hours have passed…
For
me this can be social media, writing blog posts, browsing travel sites, planning
future ventures, and looking at incredibly beautiful homes on Realtor (I like
to dream).
4.
Who
are your inspirations? Who do you admire and look up to for the work that they
do? Whether it’s a family member, author, artist, leader, a friend… write them
down.
5.
If
you could share a message with the world, what would that message be? What do
you strongly believe in? What causes do you really connect with?
6.
“What
would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?”
I
love this quote and it makes a great question. If you knew that you would
succeed at whatever you wanted to do in life, what would you be doing? Where
would you be? What would your life look like?
7.
Now
imagine you’re 90 years old and you’re reflecting back on your time on earth. You’ve
lived your dream life; you have been blessed with wonderful opportunities,
people and experiences, and you have truly lived out your passions and purpose.
What
did this life look like?
What
kind of things did you experience?
What
work did you do?
Who
did you spend your time with?
Where
did you go?
Have
a bit of fun here and describe this dream life in full detail!
Now re-read
over your answers and really acknowledge any feelings, insight or inspiration
that has come up for you.
Take note of
the ideas that pop into your head and write them all down. If you feel the need
to act on anything that has come to light, I encourage you to do it.
Please
remember, if something completely different to what you think you want to do or
what you’re doing right now comes up for you, that’s okay. The main message of this post that I want to
share with you is that it is okay to change your mind.
I have been
studying an Honor’s degree in Music and Media Management for two years now, and
I have only just realised that I am actually no longer excited by this course
or career path.
What I
actually want is to become a life coach, a yoga teacher, travel, and hold
spiritual retreats in beautiful places around the world. I want to help and inspire
people to live happier, healthier, and more successful lives. I want to have a
job that isn’t really a job. I want to wake up every single morning excited and
fulfilled in my career, knowing that I am living in my authentic self, and making
a life out of my passions and interests.
And this is
why I have made the life-changing decision to enroll on a program to become a certified life coach, to take
a year out of university, and work to save up to go travelling. It hasn’t been
easy, tackling my fears head on and having the courage to really step up and do
what I want to do, but I have never been happier.
So what are your passions? What is your vision of a dream life?
I’d love to
hear about your own personal discoveries, goals and aspirations in the comments below.
Please feel free to share.
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